do you think when daniel craig went to see ben whishaw in the crucible (and was blown away entirely no doubt) he just kept nudging people in the theater like “this is the punk kid who cut my nose when he was 17 because he doesn’t listen to instructions”
I feel like I need to give a big shout out to the 00q fandom. We are small, but we are mighty and everyone that I have come across is just darling. Some times I write dumb things and the fact that people like them just makes me feel all warm and squishy. I’m not usually one to obsess over how many notes things get, but sometimes it’s enough to inspire confidence in me and push me to create more.
honestly the harry potter fandom is so wild like we’ve all collectively refused to accept cursed child as canon but some college kids tell us hufflepuffs are particularly good finders and we don’t even question it
I didn’t truly get the whole “death of the author” paradigm until I watched the harry potter fandom collectively divorce JKR
never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.
find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.
talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore
picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else
if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.
there is an astronomical difference between ‘because of my personality disorder, i am more sensitive to small things (such as people ignoring messages) that a neurotypical person would not be sensitive to, and i would like my friends to be mindful of this when interacting with me’ and ‘because of my personality disorder, i should have a free pass to stalk, manipulate, and abuse my friends, and any criticism of my behaviour or abandonment on the part of my friends is inherently ableist’